Stop Chasing—Become And Start Attracting

 

I’m sure we’re familiar with the saying “What is mine will come to me?” But have you ever paused to ask—how?

Does it mean sitting idle and waiting for miracles? Or hoping manna will fall from the sky like it did for the Israelites?

No. It means becoming the kind of person who naturally attracts what they truly desire, through alignment with purpose, intention and consistent action. 

That saying only works when you’ve decided to improve yourself and work relentlessly toward your goals. 

Becoming demands clarity. It requires alignment and calls for clarity. 

When you become, you attract. When you don’t, you chase. And chasing? It’s a sign that you’ve failed to work on yourself. 

Chasing reduces value. It whispers desperation to others. Chasing is a mindset. A mindset rooted in external validation, seeking temporary acceptance and satisfaction. 

When you’re chasing, you’ll find yourself flaunting achievements just to feel worthy. You would always crave approval, curry favor and bend to fit in. 

But the one who becomes doesn’t stress over that. 

Their growth speaks louder than their words. Their energy naturally draws in opportunities. Their transformation becomes an undeniable evidence of their worth. 

And the truth is: chasing is always temporary. Once people find out you’re trying to impress, the value they taught you had, drops. 

How Do You Start Attracting? 

To attract, you need to evaluate your identity, your energy and your action. 

Ask yourself;

• Who do I need to be to attract what I want? 

• What kind of mindset or habits do I need to adopt to attract opportunities? 

• What steps must I take towards my growth? 

And most importantly; 

“Am I waiting for life to happen or becoming the person life responds to?” 

Today, make a firm decision: 

Stop chasing and start becoming. Become a magnet for what you desire and you won’t need to beg for what’s already drawn to your energy. 

Because in the end, you don’t get what you want, you get what you are.